How can I, as an EII, probable Ne subtype, win back an IEE, probable Fi subtype? As I expect posts of discouragement, I'll note that well, I doubt I'll listen.
I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm basically an emotionally fragile kid now (pretty shure), as I did give her a glimpse of that image, so I have some work to do. I intend to use this motivation to improve and possibly figure out other aspects of my life as well, but I need a plan and belief (and possibly some form of a stabilizing agent, real bad). Currently, aside from subtly pursuing her lovely ass, I don't think I have motivation for anything and would otherwise just waddle in selfpity nihilisticallly; but through this pursuit I intend to better other aspects of my life, and do things I should have already done. Hopefully I might run into some other girl along the way before I see futility.
As far as her reason for not wanting to be with me goes, well, frankly there's so many and bad it's pretty funny: don't give a hoot about taking care of myself, no social life, no true interests, she might have felt she was the center of my world because I came along to strong, or due to my limited circumstances; still seem like a kid needing someone to take care of him, and emotionally unstable at that. Or possibly god forbid, she thought I was an ISTp (don't know if she knows socionics, I hope not, though she might have simply been attracted by that persona). Oh yeah, she's the one who initiated initially. I can come off as one, but that's just my guard and persona I have. Fact of the matter is, I need to get my act together, emotionally, spiritually and well, I suppose in relations to being an adult. Worst thing of all is there's a general disinterest permeating everything otherwise.
I'll try to find out if she knows about socionics, but maybe that's not such a good idea. So what should I do? What tactics can you give me, what strategy can you conjure up? Tell me what attracted you to your current or past partners, and especially if you think you could change your mind about such a man through superficial displays such as ocassionally bumping into each other in college, in the span of roughly 6 months. I mean, you obviously can't imagine this, but really, just try and give me anything. I know my intentions are manipulative here, but I don't care.
I'm probably as close an EII can get to an SLI anyway.
I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm basically an emotionally fragile kid now (pretty shure), as I did give her a glimpse of that image, so I have some work to do. I intend to use this motivation to improve and possibly figure out other aspects of my life as well, but I need a plan and belief (and possibly some form of a stabilizing agent, real bad). Currently, aside from subtly pursuing her lovely ass, I don't think I have motivation for anything and would otherwise just waddle in selfpity nihilisticallly; but through this pursuit I intend to better other aspects of my life, and do things I should have already done. Hopefully I might run into some other girl along the way before I see futility.
As far as her reason for not wanting to be with me goes, well, frankly there's so many and bad it's pretty funny: don't give a hoot about taking care of myself, no social life, no true interests, she might have felt she was the center of my world because I came along to strong, or due to my limited circumstances; still seem like a kid needing someone to take care of him, and emotionally unstable at that. Or possibly god forbid, she thought I was an ISTp (don't know if she knows socionics, I hope not, though she might have simply been attracted by that persona). Oh yeah, she's the one who initiated initially. I can come off as one, but that's just my guard and persona I have. Fact of the matter is, I need to get my act together, emotionally, spiritually and well, I suppose in relations to being an adult. Worst thing of all is there's a general disinterest permeating everything otherwise.
I'll try to find out if she knows about socionics, but maybe that's not such a good idea. So what should I do? What tactics can you give me, what strategy can you conjure up? Tell me what attracted you to your current or past partners, and especially if you think you could change your mind about such a man through superficial displays such as ocassionally bumping into each other in college, in the span of roughly 6 months. I mean, you obviously can't imagine this, but really, just try and give me anything. I know my intentions are manipulative here, but I don't care.
I'm probably as close an EII can get to an SLI anyway.