[Socionics] How to tell a SEE from a SLE

Nearly all the people I hated and who hated me are Se leading. This makes sense, since I probably got creative Ne. The problem is that I can't tell whether they value Fi or Fe. I'll only describe one of these people a little bit, since they all seem to be clones.

Everything he does is overly intense and dramatic. He's super social and is very good at expressing his emotions. It seems like he doesn't care about rules. He just does everything because he feels like doing it. All he cares about is his looks, his money, his close ones and extreme physical pleasures. He's a narcissist.
I'm not saying he's objectively a horrible person (even though he actually is), so don't get offended if you can relate to him. This thread may offend SEEs/SLEs, I know, but this behaviour just gets on my nerves, and I want to understand who my conflictor is.

My conversations with him were like this:

I see him, and act like I didn't;
He notices me too and tries to get very personal;
I keep him emotionally distant;
He continues trying to get very personal in a way that seems suspicious to me;
I give signals that I don't give a thing about him;
He doesn't understand/wants to undersand and asks something or tells something very personal and stupid;
I facepalm and try to not insult him (it doesn't always work).

So yeah... what could his type be?