hi, so i met this girl on a discord server half a year ago, and we've been friends ever since. we've been described as, "the best friend duo that everyone knows about, nobody really cares about, but still hangs around. some people low-key hate you because you seem shallow as fuck and can seemingly act like assholes at times." i was thinking duality or activation but i highly doubt either of us belongs to the Ij/Ej temperament so i guess that cancels out activation? nor do i believe that we experience the same perks that's expected in relations of duality, but i could be wrong. feel free to provide shallow typings, if you wish, so i can keep this thread on topic. maybe quadra values, too.
she's going to school for linguistics but she skips class a lot. she loves fashion and all things aesthetic. i don't do much of anything except laze around and read, but i always find creative ways to make money so it all works out in the end. we get bored extremely easily. we bond over our shared experiences with shitty friends, annoying parents, and awkward flings with boys, which is common practice for friends, i suppose, but it's not our preferred conversation topic. we love to gossip but we keep most of what we see/hear contained, it's more to satisfy our curiosity than to spread potentially untruthful information we caught ear of through the grapevine. we like to go on call together and play stupid games while we chat and laugh and eat junk food, but most of our interactions take place in big groups. it's more fun that way. she's upbeat and optimistic with a devil-may-care attitude, whereas i've probably got a "sharper" edge to me, while still remaining relatively lighthearted and playful on the surface.
>we enable each other in the worst (correction: best) possible ways
>we banter A LOT, i'd even argue that 80% of our interactions revolve around slightly cruel, yet still playful insult matches
>i jokingly told everyone she died to see how'd they react, then i told them to spam her notifications/inbox with farewell messages. we laughed about it the next day then took it a step further by fabricating a facebook message wherein her "sister" reveals that she died in a car accident, for proof.
>we're shitposting extraordinaires but we can quickly oscillate between loljk to serious and back again, if need be
>we're mods on the server but we don't take our responsibilities seriously, at. all. we spam "GAY" and change everyone's nicknames for the lols
>despite our annoying nature, we try to be nice to everyone and it's rare that we get pulled into conflict
>she's definitely the more dominant personality of the two, the "socialite", in a good way, while still remaining relaxed, fun, and easygoing
>since she's hyper into aesthetics, she constantly rearranges my avatar/name/role tags to make them look pretty, which i don't mind
>our "reads" on situations are nearly identical, but they're subject to change (w/o any discomfort or conflict from either end)
>i don't know why i chose to do this in 4chan green text format
i know, i know. we need to be institutionalized, but that's besides the point. i'm genuinely curious which intertype relation best represents our dynamic because the way our interactions play out intrigues me, and she's curious, too. thank you : D
she's going to school for linguistics but she skips class a lot. she loves fashion and all things aesthetic. i don't do much of anything except laze around and read, but i always find creative ways to make money so it all works out in the end. we get bored extremely easily. we bond over our shared experiences with shitty friends, annoying parents, and awkward flings with boys, which is common practice for friends, i suppose, but it's not our preferred conversation topic. we love to gossip but we keep most of what we see/hear contained, it's more to satisfy our curiosity than to spread potentially untruthful information we caught ear of through the grapevine. we like to go on call together and play stupid games while we chat and laugh and eat junk food, but most of our interactions take place in big groups. it's more fun that way. she's upbeat and optimistic with a devil-may-care attitude, whereas i've probably got a "sharper" edge to me, while still remaining relatively lighthearted and playful on the surface.
>we enable each other in the worst (correction: best) possible ways
>we banter A LOT, i'd even argue that 80% of our interactions revolve around slightly cruel, yet still playful insult matches
>i jokingly told everyone she died to see how'd they react, then i told them to spam her notifications/inbox with farewell messages. we laughed about it the next day then took it a step further by fabricating a facebook message wherein her "sister" reveals that she died in a car accident, for proof.
>we're shitposting extraordinaires but we can quickly oscillate between loljk to serious and back again, if need be
>we're mods on the server but we don't take our responsibilities seriously, at. all. we spam "GAY" and change everyone's nicknames for the lols
>despite our annoying nature, we try to be nice to everyone and it's rare that we get pulled into conflict
>she's definitely the more dominant personality of the two, the "socialite", in a good way, while still remaining relaxed, fun, and easygoing
>since she's hyper into aesthetics, she constantly rearranges my avatar/name/role tags to make them look pretty, which i don't mind
>our "reads" on situations are nearly identical, but they're subject to change (w/o any discomfort or conflict from either end)
>i don't know why i chose to do this in 4chan green text format
i know, i know. we need to be institutionalized, but that's besides the point. i'm genuinely curious which intertype relation best represents our dynamic because the way our interactions play out intrigues me, and she's curious, too. thank you : D