I'm and EIE, and I have been dating my IEI boyfriend for about a year now. Our relationship is really great for the most part and we get along amazingly well. I don't think we have ever once argued, and he is very sweet and loving and expresses his love often. However, my boyfriend does goes through periods where he is really distant for a few days and doesn't reach out or even text me a good morning or anything at all. I barely heard from him yesterday, and that little talking we did do was initiated by me. Today he didn't text me at all and has been completely silent. I am very confident and secure in our relationship, but the fact that he can go an entire day (or even several) without talking to me does bother me. I don't make a big deal about it. I guess I'm wondering if this sort of thing is normal for IEIs? Or does it usually mean they are stressed or something is wrong? He does have anxiety issues. I'm just trying to understand, because his hot and cold behavior does confuse me. Thanks!
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