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Hello, I am one of those sad people who can never pin down their type. I have spent a lot of time looking at MBTI/Socionics and I just can't figure how the functions directly relate to me and my behavior.

I don't think I want to post a video because people just always say I am a ESFp which I cannot believe. There is nothing about ESFps that I can see in myself, except for being playful at times, which I would not say is something only they do. You can look at my instragram however, there are a few photos of myself(and my SO) at the bottom : https://www.instagram.com/chwoey/

I have quite the complex about myself, I am pretty convinced that I such socially. I have a hard time making friends because I don't try to talk to people, I keep to myself a lot. I made a good friend in the past year and I constantly am confused as to why they talked to me, why they hang out with me, why do they make an effort.. I wonder if they have anterior motives.

I am an auditory thinker, not a visual thinker at all. If someone tries to explain something to me I need to see it visually, I can't imagine it in my head.

I am successful academically, I am a mechanical engineering student. I am very good at learning from a teacher, for example I just got a A grade in my calculus 2 class. I am pretty quick at understanding concepts and methods of solving things. I have a harder time with memorization, but I can still do okay with it. I am a good problem solver, generally.

I am a rather lazy person. I don't like to clean or do things.. I enjoy cooking at times, but only when I can distract myself with tv or youtube. I would rather sit around all day playing on the internet than doing anything real. I can easily live in a mess and not be bothered by it at all.

I'm the type of person who shows their emotions. If I am happy I smile, if I am annoyed you can tell. I do not have a poker face at all. I am very expressive. This can be a bad thing as I cannot hide if I dislike people. I can be very emotional at times, crying based on tv shows or movies(this is something I am ashamed about and hide).. But I am less emotional about real life. I don't cry a lot or get very emotional. I can get pretty hot headed when someone pushes my buttons, however.

I am a very hard worker when I comes to school and work. At every job I have become a very important worker due to the amount of effort I put into jobs. I have only worked in service jobs, but at all of them I have been greatly appreciated by my supervisors/managers. I have often been promoted rather quickly, becoming a manager at one job after a few months and a print lead at another after about a year.

I have a boyfriend that I have been with for about 4 years. We live together with my cat Olive. He says 3 words that describe me are: "Silly, Intelligent and bubbly". We are very playful together, we act silly and talk silly. I do get mad at him on occasion but he is very good at dealing with me. I don't know if we are duals, but we get along better than anyone I've ever known before. I think he is SLI.. I do find he is a bit of a know-it-all sometimes however.

I could probably write forever, but I will leave it at that.. Feel free to ask me questions.

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