Hi guys,
Wondering if anyone can get give me some feedback. I'd like to know if I am possibly an SF. If so, I would most likely be an ESI. For a little bit now I thought I was an IEE, but I'm realizing that I value and appreciate Se and being "present" so much. I get lost in moments and am upset because I feel as though people are "too good" for appreciating what's actually going on around them. I am always trying to move forward in life (trying projects, gaining different skills) and I'm also thinking this is an Se way more than an Ne way. This is also probably why I've felt vastly different than the rest of my family (who all have Ni egos). I am subtle and appreciate this in others, so I find that I am frequently overpowered by larger personalities. I remain largely understated because, frankly, I'm so bad at explaining myself to others and what I say always gets misconstrued. I'm also much more of an introvert but usually can play the role of an extrovert too, but when I do seek to express my Fi it is always through some physical way like making a painting, or writing music. People are always surprised and even scared at what I come up with, because it is so "uncharacteristically" dark from what they see of me on a daily basis. I am always surprised that they are surprised. I would definitely believe that I use Se. In addition, I have INFj friends and I am much more guarded about who I let in my life than they are. I also have such a soft spot for ENTjs, I find them so helpful (but this could also be because my sister is an LIE and we get along pretty well).
Wondering if you guys could just list specific traits? It would help a lot. I feel like I'm lurking around this forum putting my foot in my mouth so much at this point, but I'd regret not asking about this.
Wondering if anyone can get give me some feedback. I'd like to know if I am possibly an SF. If so, I would most likely be an ESI. For a little bit now I thought I was an IEE, but I'm realizing that I value and appreciate Se and being "present" so much. I get lost in moments and am upset because I feel as though people are "too good" for appreciating what's actually going on around them. I am always trying to move forward in life (trying projects, gaining different skills) and I'm also thinking this is an Se way more than an Ne way. This is also probably why I've felt vastly different than the rest of my family (who all have Ni egos). I am subtle and appreciate this in others, so I find that I am frequently overpowered by larger personalities. I remain largely understated because, frankly, I'm so bad at explaining myself to others and what I say always gets misconstrued. I'm also much more of an introvert but usually can play the role of an extrovert too, but when I do seek to express my Fi it is always through some physical way like making a painting, or writing music. People are always surprised and even scared at what I come up with, because it is so "uncharacteristically" dark from what they see of me on a daily basis. I am always surprised that they are surprised. I would definitely believe that I use Se. In addition, I have INFj friends and I am much more guarded about who I let in my life than they are. I also have such a soft spot for ENTjs, I find them so helpful (but this could also be because my sister is an LIE and we get along pretty well).
Wondering if you guys could just list specific traits? It would help a lot. I feel like I'm lurking around this forum putting my foot in my mouth so much at this point, but I'd regret not asking about this.