I wonder if this is more Se polr behavior, or Se seeking...
I'm quite short, usually wherever I go I'm the shortest of all, the same for my weight, I'm a thin person so I'm that stereotype of an overall small girl. My physical strenght is basically nonexisting and this often attracts Se ego types. They feel like they should take care of me and help me survive, because I tend to have an overall fragile look. Whenever I try to open something and I don't have enough strenght, or I carry something heavy I usually get a reaction, "Oh you're so cute for trying that hard, let me help you," and they do something that would take me hours in a few seconds.
I really like this kind of help and I even try to maintain a look like that. Probably an extreme example would be the fact that I got into crazy eating habits and restrictions once, because I was obessed with this ideal of a fragile ethereal woman.
The other less pleasent thing about Se types and me however is, that I sometimes feel unappreciated for my abilities among them. They see me as a child they should take care of, but not their equal. I don't have this issue with any other types but them and I find it to be very humiliating. I feel like they try to make me feel inferior, or submissive and I really hate that idea. I'm a very independent and individualistic person and I'm strong in my own way and it really hurts me when I feel like they totally overlook it. I usually treat people as my equals and I want to be treated the same way, but I totally fail with Se egoes at this. We always have this annoying parent/child relationship that really pisses me off. This is probably more likely with gamma SFs than beta STs even though it has happened with both.
I'm quite short, usually wherever I go I'm the shortest of all, the same for my weight, I'm a thin person so I'm that stereotype of an overall small girl. My physical strenght is basically nonexisting and this often attracts Se ego types. They feel like they should take care of me and help me survive, because I tend to have an overall fragile look. Whenever I try to open something and I don't have enough strenght, or I carry something heavy I usually get a reaction, "Oh you're so cute for trying that hard, let me help you," and they do something that would take me hours in a few seconds.
I really like this kind of help and I even try to maintain a look like that. Probably an extreme example would be the fact that I got into crazy eating habits and restrictions once, because I was obessed with this ideal of a fragile ethereal woman.
The other less pleasent thing about Se types and me however is, that I sometimes feel unappreciated for my abilities among them. They see me as a child they should take care of, but not their equal. I don't have this issue with any other types but them and I find it to be very humiliating. I feel like they try to make me feel inferior, or submissive and I really hate that idea. I'm a very independent and individualistic person and I'm strong in my own way and it really hurts me when I feel like they totally overlook it. I usually treat people as my equals and I want to be treated the same way, but I totally fail with Se egoes at this. We always have this annoying parent/child relationship that really pisses me off. This is probably more likely with gamma SFs than beta STs even though it has happened with both.