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Fi 3Ds and Getting Things So Wrong; Your Experiences

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Here's my situation.

I'm feeling very nauseous, shaken. Can we get relationships so wrong? I feel a fraud of a Fi ego.

Basically, I've found out a friend since high school who I still regularly kept contact with, has been two faced about me behind my back, making fun of my shyness, the fact I'm quiet and easily anxious.


I haven't confronted her yet. I have suspected for years, on several occasions that she didn't really have much regard for me but over time I have been convinced that it's me being paranoid and overly anxious, and have made excuses for her behaviour that has been caustic and sometimes flat out unkind. I did confront her last year saying I was unsure of our friendship but we patched things up, and as usual, I took on the responsibility as me being to fault for the upsets.


How could I have let this happen? As an EII I somehow ignored the signs of disrespect and let the toxic relationship continue, despite my gut sometimes telling me that things were off. I guess I've been so desperate to have a true blue friendship that I convinced myself that I did have one. Silly ideas of mine about 'friendship is magic' and the power of sticking together and having good times and support. I've been watching too much Sailor Moon and Fairy Tail I guess...


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