Hello,
I used to be convinced that I was ILE with a highly developed Fe. My friends recently starting getting into MBTI/personality typing and, after several convos with them, I realized that I hang out almost exclusively with deltas. In fact, none of my friends are alphas. My boyfriend is an LSE, and my best girl friends are IEE and EII. Now, I'm starting to wonder if I am in fact an EII who is strangely comfortable with Ti (but not Te! I'm terrible with Te!). My strongest functions seem to be, in order of strength:
1. Ne
2. Fe
3. Ni
4. Fi
5. Si
6. Se
7. Ti
8. Te
Why I think I am ILE:
I love to "argue" and debate. I love easy math like algebra and geometry, and do Sodku puzzles to relax. I love trivia. I love to categorize and organize information. I love things being orderly, in general. I am socially anxious and am terrified to talk to people. I worry that people don't like me. I instantly ask those closest to me how they feel about me so I can be sure that our relationship is still solid. I find keeping up with the details of people's lives tedious and I often forget conversations I've had with people. I generally relate better to the Aloha quadrant descriptions.
Why I think I am IEE:
I genuinely like people. I love meeting new people (after I get over the social anxiety) and learning about them, though I am not good at staying in contact and a lot of times I tend to get bored with the relationships. I feel like I can sense whether or not someone is interested in my right away. It's just a look they give me and I know what their attitude is toward me (or anything else, for that matter). I also have a very weak Te and find myself trying to compensate by writing everything down and reviewing my to inlists with other people in order to prioritize tasks. I get the impression that no one believes that I am competent but I get tons of compliments on my "great attitude" (it's basically the single only compliment I've ever received in my 10+ years as a working professional).Oh, and I love to give compliments if only to make other people feel good (I always try to base my compliments on something that o truly believe!). I try to see the best in others and I believe that everyone, given the right circumstances, has the potential to be great. I am also incredibly empathetic toward people, especially the downtrodden, because I know what it is like to experience that pain. I do everything in my power to help people from feeling that way because I don't want to ever feel that way.
Ok, there's a bunch more but that's probably a good starting point.
Any help would be appreociated!
I used to be convinced that I was ILE with a highly developed Fe. My friends recently starting getting into MBTI/personality typing and, after several convos with them, I realized that I hang out almost exclusively with deltas. In fact, none of my friends are alphas. My boyfriend is an LSE, and my best girl friends are IEE and EII. Now, I'm starting to wonder if I am in fact an EII who is strangely comfortable with Ti (but not Te! I'm terrible with Te!). My strongest functions seem to be, in order of strength:
1. Ne
2. Fe
3. Ni
4. Fi
5. Si
6. Se
7. Ti
8. Te
Why I think I am ILE:
I love to "argue" and debate. I love easy math like algebra and geometry, and do Sodku puzzles to relax. I love trivia. I love to categorize and organize information. I love things being orderly, in general. I am socially anxious and am terrified to talk to people. I worry that people don't like me. I instantly ask those closest to me how they feel about me so I can be sure that our relationship is still solid. I find keeping up with the details of people's lives tedious and I often forget conversations I've had with people. I generally relate better to the Aloha quadrant descriptions.
Why I think I am IEE:
I genuinely like people. I love meeting new people (after I get over the social anxiety) and learning about them, though I am not good at staying in contact and a lot of times I tend to get bored with the relationships. I feel like I can sense whether or not someone is interested in my right away. It's just a look they give me and I know what their attitude is toward me (or anything else, for that matter). I also have a very weak Te and find myself trying to compensate by writing everything down and reviewing my to inlists with other people in order to prioritize tasks. I get the impression that no one believes that I am competent but I get tons of compliments on my "great attitude" (it's basically the single only compliment I've ever received in my 10+ years as a working professional).Oh, and I love to give compliments if only to make other people feel good (I always try to base my compliments on something that o truly believe!). I try to see the best in others and I believe that everyone, given the right circumstances, has the potential to be great. I am also incredibly empathetic toward people, especially the downtrodden, because I know what it is like to experience that pain. I do everything in my power to help people from feeling that way because I don't want to ever feel that way.
Ok, there's a bunch more but that's probably a good starting point.
Any help would be appreociated!