I find that talking about everyday life and people and feelings is really easy with a dual, you can keep the conversation for hours, but after a while you feel the conversation is pleasant but not very productive so when switching to a more serious topic, there lies the problem. I as a NT type want to talk about technology and science and new things I have read, ESIs as members of social club want to know about my friends, my life or problems with society, people being unethical etc. I love to be asked things but I don't like to be a person who has time to waste, or be seen as one. so it makes me anxious to find a topic that we both like and usually I feel like the conversation wasn't pleasant for the ESIs, since I am in a hurry to get to the next topic. Having nothing to offer is painful for me, so is being asked a question to which I don't know the answer!
I have also seen that EIIs don't enjoy LSE's technical conversations with other people, and can't join in because they don't have much to offer.
is this a problem for you guys as well?
since duals are such different people, It should naturally be difficult to find topics to talk about but somehow the conversations are enjoyable. but how to improve them?
I have also seen that EIIs don't enjoy LSE's technical conversations with other people, and can't join in because they don't have much to offer.
is this a problem for you guys as well?
since duals are such different people, It should naturally be difficult to find topics to talk about but somehow the conversations are enjoyable. but how to improve them?