hotelambush Questionnaire
Please save your answers offline so you do not accidentally lose them!Tell me about yourself I am very reserved person. I try to be kind and understanding. I like to observe more than talk. I think that I am okay with that. I love animals, taking care of them. I will always help if someone asks me. I like to learn new things about psychology, sociology, science. I like to understand the meaning of people actions. I am quite handy. I like to know, how things work. For example, if I watch sports game, I like to know all rules. I think, that I am empathetic, but I may seem distant and cold.
What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it? I am still finding my purpose in life. I think that I haven't found the thing, that I can do the best. I tried study, but dropped out several times. I have more like emotional difficulities. I think I need a lot of support. I worked in kirdergarten as a teacher's assistant, but I found this job stressful, because I think, that I am better in one on one situations.
What are your values, and why? I value loyalty, openness, kindness. I think that we need to be kind to others- don’t do things to others, that you don’t want to happen to yourself. I believe in God, so Christian values are important to me. I think that learning self- respect is very important, so you can live your life without any fear.
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them? I watch movies and read books. I like nature, In summers i like to watch birds. I love animals, they seem so interesting to me. I have read many books about animal instincts, psychology. I like to read biographies and biographical novels, because I like to see how people have lived their lives, how they developed. I am interested in sociology and technologies. It is interesting to study how people, machines work.
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What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?I would like to
I look for moral support and understanding, humor, laughter and shared interests. I have two friends only from childhood, it is very hard for me to meet new people. I think, that it is very hard, so long time is needed to truly know someone.
I have lost few friends from childhood, because they did not understand, that I make relationship with each one of them differently. I could not fit in a group of friends who share all things with all members equally. Each relationship was special for me.
What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?I have lost few friends from childhood, because they did not understand, that I make relationship with each one of them differently. I could not fit in a group of friends who share all things with all members equally. Each relationship was special for me.
I conflict only with my closest family members. For most of the time it is opinion collision or different values or rhythm of life.
There are some people that I never conflict with, I think it is not worth it, we have nothing to divide. I sometimes run off from conflicts.
How would your friends describe you?There are some people that I never conflict with, I think it is not worth it, we have nothing to divide. I sometimes run off from conflicts.
I think, that they would describe me trustworthy and a good listener.
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself? I am shy and unconfident. I think I create like a wall around myself.
I worry too much about what people think and feel. (Others tell me that. That I need to think about myself first, what will I gain.)
Some say that I am naive, but I don’t agree.
I like to find meaning in people actions and some say, that I try to justify myself or others. You're an advocate.
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?I worry too much about what people think and feel. (Others tell me that. That I need to think about myself first, what will I gain.)
Some say that I am naive, but I don’t agree.
I like to find meaning in people actions and some say, that I try to justify myself or others. You're an advocate.
I think that the biggest help would be that someone knew me and believed in me and said that I can do anything. (Good, kind words).
I need someone to tell me my strengths. What clothes fit me, I dont recognize my talents.
I can take care of my surroundings, of children and animals. I can do clerical work for others. I like things to be done fast. I never leave unpleasant work for later, I do it now, so I can relax later.
What things do you find to be a chore? What things do you enjoy more than others?I need someone to tell me my strengths. What clothes fit me, I dont recognize my talents.
I can take care of my surroundings, of children and animals. I can do clerical work for others. I like things to be done fast. I never leave unpleasant work for later, I do it now, so I can relax later.
Chore for me is talking publicly, because I lose words and look stupid, although I would like to learn argumentation. I look with admiration at people who can freely and calmly talk in front of people.
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them? My goals are to have happy family, to become self confident and gain wisdom.
I want to let go of fear and all the rocks I have in my soul, so I can live my life fully.
I think that something is still missing in my life.
If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time?I want to let go of fear and all the rocks I have in my soul, so I can live my life fully.
I think that something is still missing in my life.
I would do things to achieve my goals. I would go to personality trainers or psychologist...live in stress free environment. I would make community or centre or club, where people could share their interest in books or movie, series. We would talk, make theme parties and talk. I would own a coffee shop, where you could come with animals.
What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you? I accept a little bit of arrogance, because It can be mistaken with bravery or daring. I like, that people can fight through difficulities for a good cause that they believe in.
I dont like that people are too talkative and too fiendly, because it is hard to know if these feelings are true, if there is really a bond between us. I dont understand it.
What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)? What do you think of daily chores?I dont like that people are too talkative and too fiendly, because it is hard to know if these feelings are true, if there is really a bond between us. I dont understand it.
I cant stand messy surroundings. I do chores fast, so I can forget about them for a while. I like asceticism.
How do you behave around strangers? I dont talk much but I try to at least smile and nod. I am very shy.
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you? With strangers- I think that my emotions are seen in my face, but i cant be that harsh. The most unpleasant conflict with stranger was, when neighbor falsely slandered me. I could not get over that feeling for a long time. It is hard for me to apologise- not because I think, that I am not guilty, but because of emotional intimacy. I dont know.
With close people I tend to be impulsive. Exit room harshly , cry. I close up. Cant talk it out.
What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong.With close people I tend to be impulsive. Exit room harshly , cry. I close up. Cant talk it out.
That people cant change the world. That we need to live in a world as it is. That if I dont like something, I need to accept it. Why we need to accept the wrong things? I dont say that everyone is like that. I dont think, that people are becoming more smarter. There are scientific discoveries, technologies, but people need also to become emotionally smarter, so we dont do harm to each other.
What did you do last Friday? I like to meet my grandparents. I like to change environment a bit. If I had a chance, i would go to movies every Friday.
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