hotelambush Questionnaire
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Tell me about yourself Hello! I'm Claudia. I studied mbti for a year, then i rather started to switch to socionics a year ago. It's far better, more detailed. I want to understand myself and others too, to help me accept and understand others in general (their viewpoints, actions, behaviours)
What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it? I study myself, I do research but I'm not a student. I'm 23 years old and work in a confectionery. I have to make the cakes and I have to sell them too. I studied to be a programmer, but I didn't liked it and i don't remember it but somehow I got the idea to work in the service area. I like it because I don't have to work with others, when I'm in work, all place is mine so zero teamwork. I dislike it when there's a lot of customer and when I have to handle unexpected problems.
What are your values, and why? I really don't know. I think my family is very important to me, but I never thinked much about my values, I mean I think I don't even know what my values are.
I think if I have a romantic interest, he become my first and greatest value. I rearrange my life for i can adapt to him in everything.
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you do them?I think if I have a romantic interest, he become my first and greatest value. I rearrange my life for i can adapt to him in everything.
Study socionics to better understand myself and others. I'm not proud of it but I have a hard time in my life now, so I play a lot of video games, it "helps" me to unfocus me from my thoughts (with more or less success). I have interest (if it can be considered to an interest) in other people, especially a romantic interest. I just think and worry about it, about them. When there's a contradiction I can spend hoursm days worrying and thinking about it.
What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships? I don't know, predictability maybe but it can be because of past failures.
What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis? -
How would your friends describe you? I guess kind.
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself? I worry a lot, hide my feelings for not disappoint others. People tell me I'm disorganized and just go with the flow. I dislike almost everything. I always feel like other people just tolerate me while they hate me. I think I'm boring and annoying. I have low self-esteem.
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help? I don't know I can make food for myself :D I think i need help with everything. Would appreciate much if I just take care of somebody like I literally do for them everything, just please take care all of the bills and important papers and important things. PLEASE
What things do you find to be a chore? What things do you enjoy more than others? Do the dishes, I actually like it, but I don't like to place the dry things to their place.
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them? My goal is that somebody loves me with all his heart forever and I want him to feel that he never ever experienced things, feelings like this before me. And I want to learn to ride a horse because people say that if you learn to make a 400kg animal to obey you, it gives a huge confidence.
If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time? I guess I would just enjoy family time do with them what we like to do, learn to ride a horse, and I like to make videos for youtube, for example i choose a music and my favourite films and edit it in a way that the scenes fit to the music.
What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you? I don't know i think it's too nuanced for me to answer it and depends on the situation.
What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)? What do you think of daily chores? There's never a mess in my room, i just have to clean the natural dust from time to time and I clean my floor 3-4 times a week. I don't beautify it, I just sometimes buy statues (i have a fairy, a dog, a horse etc) and i think thoose beautify it.
How do you behave around strangers? Depends on the stranger, I can give them all my life and secrets in one converstation, or be closed.
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you? Nope. I try to avoid, ignore it as much as possible. I take everything at heart, even a strict, eye rolling look. I feel like my heart break through my chest, panic and even cry.
What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong. I thinked about it but there's too much sides. Like i can say 'all people who shy are gulliable' or some random thing but I don't like common things, I think there's no common things. Not all thing is applied to all situation and not all people will think the same.
What did you do last Friday? Was home probably in front of my computer.
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What is your biggest accomplishment? I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who I didn't wanted to be with, it took me 3 years but I did it!
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