I finally came to the conclusion that my assistant manager is most likely SLI after considering EII and SEI (Only really considered those two because of VI. He particularly resembles EII a lot, but I don't think he is EII at all now) for him in the past. But I've been hanging out with him and his brother who works under both of us (brother I'm fairly certain is SLE) quite a lot recently and I'm starting to wonder whether he is even an introvert for sure.
A brief description: He is a pretty chill stoner dude who works on cars as a hobby, specifically Hondas/Acuras. He likes gadgets, especially vapes. He's good with computers. He seemed really quiet until I got to know him. I've worked with him almost two years and I kinda thought he was boring until maybe 6 months ago. Now I hang out at him and his brother's house maybe 5 times a week after work, smoking and playing XBox (Forza and COD mostly, not games I would play by myself, but I like them because they like them.). Sometimes he will get bored of playing COD with me quickly because I suck and he will just watch me and his brother play and he likes to watch me suck at it and laugh and mock me basically.
He walks with confidence, makes plenty of eye contact, often will look at me or others with an amused look when someone else does something ridiculous, can sometimes have a slightly smug expression, laughs easily but in a restrained way. He is always calm and patient.
His SLE brother is a huge asshole with anger issues (but a heart of gold) and the guy I'm wondering about never confronts him when he is being difficult at work, basically just rolls his eyes, even though it is really his job to do something about it. Maybe this is so their relationship doesn't suffer because they work together. They depend on each other in a lot of ways and have been through a lot together.
Anyway, I'm questioning whether he is even an introvert (and Si user specifically) because of how often he invites me over and his comfort with his living situation. He shares a room with his brother and is in his twenties and often has other people sleeping in there as well. Sometimes I'll come over just to hang out with his brother and he'll be asleep and I'll feel bad because he has to work in the morning, and he never seems to care. The Si doms I know would probably be mad at their sleep being interrupted and would quickly tire of always having people in their rooms. Also, this dude regularly falls asleep in his clothes, often sitting up. And his bed is a couch.
Is it possible he's just used to it, or maybe he's just kind of a pushover, especially to his brother who is older and much more forceful? Though for the most part they seem to have a lot of respect for each other. I have him pegged as 9w8 and his brother as 8w7. However my own SEI 9w8 sister would not let me walk all over her like that and definitely would not want to share a room with anyone but her husband. She would defend her territory perhaps until death lol.
Any ideas? I don't want to post his picture but he particularly resembles the two males in this photo, cropped lazily from Filatova's portraits of EII. He also resembles SEI more than SLI I believe. He almost always has that slight smile on his face. I'm fairly certain he is Alpha or delta.
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A brief description: He is a pretty chill stoner dude who works on cars as a hobby, specifically Hondas/Acuras. He likes gadgets, especially vapes. He's good with computers. He seemed really quiet until I got to know him. I've worked with him almost two years and I kinda thought he was boring until maybe 6 months ago. Now I hang out at him and his brother's house maybe 5 times a week after work, smoking and playing XBox (Forza and COD mostly, not games I would play by myself, but I like them because they like them.). Sometimes he will get bored of playing COD with me quickly because I suck and he will just watch me and his brother play and he likes to watch me suck at it and laugh and mock me basically.
He walks with confidence, makes plenty of eye contact, often will look at me or others with an amused look when someone else does something ridiculous, can sometimes have a slightly smug expression, laughs easily but in a restrained way. He is always calm and patient.
His SLE brother is a huge asshole with anger issues (but a heart of gold) and the guy I'm wondering about never confronts him when he is being difficult at work, basically just rolls his eyes, even though it is really his job to do something about it. Maybe this is so their relationship doesn't suffer because they work together. They depend on each other in a lot of ways and have been through a lot together.
Anyway, I'm questioning whether he is even an introvert (and Si user specifically) because of how often he invites me over and his comfort with his living situation. He shares a room with his brother and is in his twenties and often has other people sleeping in there as well. Sometimes I'll come over just to hang out with his brother and he'll be asleep and I'll feel bad because he has to work in the morning, and he never seems to care. The Si doms I know would probably be mad at their sleep being interrupted and would quickly tire of always having people in their rooms. Also, this dude regularly falls asleep in his clothes, often sitting up. And his bed is a couch.
Is it possible he's just used to it, or maybe he's just kind of a pushover, especially to his brother who is older and much more forceful? Though for the most part they seem to have a lot of respect for each other. I have him pegged as 9w8 and his brother as 8w7. However my own SEI 9w8 sister would not let me walk all over her like that and definitely would not want to share a room with anyone but her husband. She would defend her territory perhaps until death lol.
Any ideas? I don't want to post his picture but he particularly resembles the two males in this photo, cropped lazily from Filatova's portraits of EII. He also resembles SEI more than SLI I believe. He almost always has that slight smile on his face. I'm fairly certain he is Alpha or delta.
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