Hi!
There is this problem I'm having with dual seeking in theory: What I understood, was that the best way to find a dual was through not knowing about existence of whole socionics theory. Then whatever you try to do based on socionics is not natural, because you would not have done it 'naturally'.
In this way the socionics tends create problems, cause 'knowing' how something is supposed to work makes it highly likely to start working that way just because you was predicting it to work that way. Say you know your own type and how your supposed to act (according socionics theory) then you can type the other person, find out what relation comes out and start working with the person as if you did know that the prediction was correct. Now from what I have seen it is correct, but knowing about those predictions tend to create more problems instead of solving them.
Do you find socionics helping you in some manner instead of it creating new problems? Can you 'seek' your dual, or is the best way just go to somewhere where they can erase all my knowledge about socionics and MBTI?
-Carl G old
There is this problem I'm having with dual seeking in theory: What I understood, was that the best way to find a dual was through not knowing about existence of whole socionics theory. Then whatever you try to do based on socionics is not natural, because you would not have done it 'naturally'.
In this way the socionics tends create problems, cause 'knowing' how something is supposed to work makes it highly likely to start working that way just because you was predicting it to work that way. Say you know your own type and how your supposed to act (according socionics theory) then you can type the other person, find out what relation comes out and start working with the person as if you did know that the prediction was correct. Now from what I have seen it is correct, but knowing about those predictions tend to create more problems instead of solving them.
Do you find socionics helping you in some manner instead of it creating new problems? Can you 'seek' your dual, or is the best way just go to somewhere where they can erase all my knowledge about socionics and MBTI?
-Carl G old