I initially really liked this person. Like there was an immediate draw. I started thinking very positively about them.
They have a very good vocabulary, very concise. Often they will ask me to be more specific in how i express myself.
Later i realized they started giving me advice. Except, a lot of it kept changing, like the advice of today would be almost a contradiction to that of tomorrow. I started thinking low Si. It reminded me of something Smilingeyes once said " a lot of ILIs are full of fluff, esp, if high in Ni" "not a direct quote, but can't find it to link it). I decided to do away with their advice, or at least take what is possible to take out of something that fluctuates so much lol.
They bought their own business at age 26. That has to count for something.
Quite affable, but reserved too, seem to alternate between these two modes.
ILI?
They have a very good vocabulary, very concise. Often they will ask me to be more specific in how i express myself.
Later i realized they started giving me advice. Except, a lot of it kept changing, like the advice of today would be almost a contradiction to that of tomorrow. I started thinking low Si. It reminded me of something Smilingeyes once said " a lot of ILIs are full of fluff, esp, if high in Ni" "not a direct quote, but can't find it to link it). I decided to do away with their advice, or at least take what is possible to take out of something that fluctuates so much lol.
They bought their own business at age 26. That has to count for something.
Quite affable, but reserved too, seem to alternate between these two modes.
ILI?