So, i actually thought the possibility of being an Fe lead.. As what @Sol is saying.
By the way, sorry for being an asshole to you..
Like.. There's this situation i am experiencing in my life:
Like, i actually have obvious IEE, EII, and doubtful IEI set of friends.
My descriptions and analysis of them:
IEE - (Ne)
EII (Fi)
Doubtful IEI - might be ESI???
So there.. It's actually hard for me to really genuinely associate with them.. I feel like i need to hold my guard down.. Because IEE has got some fucked up brain.. And EII is very sensitive that i feel like i should always say the right words.. Then ESI i feel like i should, well i think he tries to please me.. I don't really exert effort on associating with ESI since he's not very selfish type and he seem he likes me that he also tries to befriend me well, without any problems.
So, the situation i had is that these three people well, it's more of a vent actually.. I accidentally have been part of their group and, to be honest their Fi especially with IEE and EIE is dumb for me.
Like there's this job situation where IEE needs to find a job.. But IEE is very much as if she needs to get a perfect job.. That at first she comes off arrogant like, hire me because I'm good.. Blah blah.. Actually she's really good.. But she seems off arrogant.. And well, there's pride factor in her.
The EIi just supports her for being who she is as well as the ESI/EIE.. Like they said, yes.. It's your privilege to get the best job. And the best situation.. Like as if they're telling the company to adjust their schedule in favor to them.. Rather than adjusting theirs in favor of the company.
They think that way.. And they experience bullshit response like, the company withdraw from hiring the IEE..
Then i told her, to adjust herself into the company's wants rather than hers and apologize if she really wants the job.
Like she actually did but it's her least likely to do and she said something like they, three of em feel like they bow down too much.. To the company like beg for a job..
Like, for me, it's not about your own pride. Like, it's actually dumb to think that way. Like if you really want something, do something good about it. Like, she has no more options. It's either get a job or go back home. Like humble herself for a while to get what she wanted.
And pride doesn't get her anywhere.
I suddenly felt like, i might not be an Fi valuing type in this regard..
Because i might be selfish in my own good benefits, like who isn't selfish anyways? But i think i am able to see the situation between the company side and their own side.
Like is this how Fe leads work? Like you just have the special capabilities to see the social situations and, you're just aware of the things that will pleases the crowd and the ones who won't gonna please them..
And i feel like I'm so good at reading people..
So what's your people reading abilities as Fe leads?
By the way, sorry for being an asshole to you..
Like.. There's this situation i am experiencing in my life:
Like, i actually have obvious IEE, EII, and doubtful IEI set of friends.
My descriptions and analysis of them:
IEE - (Ne)
EII (Fi)
Doubtful IEI - might be ESI???
So there.. It's actually hard for me to really genuinely associate with them.. I feel like i need to hold my guard down.. Because IEE has got some fucked up brain.. And EII is very sensitive that i feel like i should always say the right words.. Then ESI i feel like i should, well i think he tries to please me.. I don't really exert effort on associating with ESI since he's not very selfish type and he seem he likes me that he also tries to befriend me well, without any problems.
So, the situation i had is that these three people well, it's more of a vent actually.. I accidentally have been part of their group and, to be honest their Fi especially with IEE and EIE is dumb for me.
Like there's this job situation where IEE needs to find a job.. But IEE is very much as if she needs to get a perfect job.. That at first she comes off arrogant like, hire me because I'm good.. Blah blah.. Actually she's really good.. But she seems off arrogant.. And well, there's pride factor in her.
The EIi just supports her for being who she is as well as the ESI/EIE.. Like they said, yes.. It's your privilege to get the best job. And the best situation.. Like as if they're telling the company to adjust their schedule in favor to them.. Rather than adjusting theirs in favor of the company.
They think that way.. And they experience bullshit response like, the company withdraw from hiring the IEE..
Then i told her, to adjust herself into the company's wants rather than hers and apologize if she really wants the job.
Like she actually did but it's her least likely to do and she said something like they, three of em feel like they bow down too much.. To the company like beg for a job..
Like, for me, it's not about your own pride. Like, it's actually dumb to think that way. Like if you really want something, do something good about it. Like, she has no more options. It's either get a job or go back home. Like humble herself for a while to get what she wanted.
And pride doesn't get her anywhere.
I suddenly felt like, i might not be an Fi valuing type in this regard..
Because i might be selfish in my own good benefits, like who isn't selfish anyways? But i think i am able to see the situation between the company side and their own side.
Like is this how Fe leads work? Like you just have the special capabilities to see the social situations and, you're just aware of the things that will pleases the crowd and the ones who won't gonna please them..
And i feel like I'm so good at reading people..
So what's your people reading abilities as Fe leads?