Hi everyone I'm back with few questions
After I left the forum, I got involved in self-development books, webinars ... etc
So I did some journaling & self-reflection, after which I noticed when I was young I was more of LIE instead of ILI and after reading about LIE I can see how it fits but LIEs are usually described as confident & natural leaders
when it comes to confidence, socially I can be very unconfident sometimes even shy but technically I am very confident for example in my company new graduates have to go through assignment rotation between different groups to get a better understanding of how the company operates, and my supervisors always praise me for fast-learning & getting things done, but complains about my communication skills (by this they mean small talks, public speaking/giving presentations, english speaking skills < my writing skills are much better even my supervisors agree that my emails are very professional well my english instructor never gave my more than B+ in writing mostly just B)
As for natural leaders, I don't think I really care much about it as long as I feel in control, but when working on a project with a team, people seems to follow what I say (I am talking mainly about my peers as others have more experience & knowledge than me)
also, two of my peers did say I fit to be a supervisor
and here is an example of discussion with one of my coworkers while discussing an issue with one of our datacenters
Me: the other two datacenters are more than enough this datacenter should be closed
Him talking to the others in the group: this guy is going to be a CEO or VP one day
Me: why?
Him: you make decisions without thinking about the employees who would lose their job if that datacenter closed
Me: well the company was built to make profit not to pay unnecessary costs
so I think people think I fit as a manager rather than a leader
In the end here are my questions:
1. what do you think of the above and how do you think it relates to LIE/ILI?
2. what are the differences between LIE & ILI?
3. what are differences between Te-dom vs creative? Ni-dom vs creative as well?
After I left the forum, I got involved in self-development books, webinars ... etc
So I did some journaling & self-reflection, after which I noticed when I was young I was more of LIE instead of ILI and after reading about LIE I can see how it fits but LIEs are usually described as confident & natural leaders
when it comes to confidence, socially I can be very unconfident sometimes even shy but technically I am very confident for example in my company new graduates have to go through assignment rotation between different groups to get a better understanding of how the company operates, and my supervisors always praise me for fast-learning & getting things done, but complains about my communication skills (by this they mean small talks, public speaking/giving presentations, english speaking skills < my writing skills are much better even my supervisors agree that my emails are very professional well my english instructor never gave my more than B+ in writing mostly just B)
As for natural leaders, I don't think I really care much about it as long as I feel in control, but when working on a project with a team, people seems to follow what I say (I am talking mainly about my peers as others have more experience & knowledge than me)
also, two of my peers did say I fit to be a supervisor
and here is an example of discussion with one of my coworkers while discussing an issue with one of our datacenters
Me: the other two datacenters are more than enough this datacenter should be closed
Him talking to the others in the group: this guy is going to be a CEO or VP one day
Me: why?
Him: you make decisions without thinking about the employees who would lose their job if that datacenter closed
Me: well the company was built to make profit not to pay unnecessary costs
so I think people think I fit as a manager rather than a leader
In the end here are my questions:
1. what do you think of the above and how do you think it relates to LIE/ILI?
2. what are the differences between LIE & ILI?
3. what are differences between Te-dom vs creative? Ni-dom vs creative as well?