THE 21 QUESTIONS
Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is a perception. It’s something an individual find harmonious and generally pretty. Beauty can be used with almost anything. A beautiful house, a beautiful person (looks and personality), a poem, music, etc…
Love is a feeling. It’s often used with human relationships. Love can be towards family, a special partner, friends. It’s a higher level of “like”. You can also use it towards food, colors, music and much of the same things as “beautiful”.
We can see the difference in this sentence: “It’s beautiful, I love it.”. Beautiful is applied to a something. Love is the feeling you have towards it.
2. What are your most important values?
I value the beautiful. Music and art, warmness, softness, nice people and nature. I am sure I could’ve gone on. I think I could say harmony and peace above all.
3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I do. It has come to me from my parents. It also has a lot of generally nice morals to follow. I just don’t see anything wrong with it.
4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
Militaries protect us from war. I am not very knowledgeable on this topic, but I believe a lot of how we are handling this is not very good. War is always bad.
Power is quality and quantity.
Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I usually don’t have long conversations about specific things. If I even have long conversations it would be on quite a variety of topics.
I don’t have that many interests, but I really enjoy “small arts”. By that I mean music and art, playing instruments, digital music and drawing. Not art that you need a lot of resources for.
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
I am not focused on health and medicine. I do find this to be boring. It’s good to be healthy, but it’s not interesting at all. I never work out or do anything in this area.
7. What do you think of daily chores?
I think I have a pretty common view on daily chores. They are boring, but sometimes they need to be done. Sometimes I try to make them a bit more fun by, as an example, putting on some music in the background.
8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
I do love animated films. The visuals and possibilities stimulates me. I find other “non-animated” movies not that enjoyable, so I usually don’t watch them.
For books, I never read. It’s just too plain and boring for me. As I said, I love visuals.
9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
I don’t cry much. It usually never reaches the point where I cry.
I usually smile at cute moments in both reality and in movies. Like clumsy people, or maybe spotting animals. And of course, if there is anything i find funny, I would naturally smile. I can smile at a lot of different things, and often small things.
10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
Somewhere harmonious. Somewhere relaxing. This can be achieved with music, or maybe just quiet environments. Out in nature is a good place, as it’s quiet and beautiful scenery. I know sleeping animals often creates a type of comfort in me. Soft talking is also good.
Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
I would say people would say my weakness could be that I am too shy. Sometimes it can be hard to say anything at all.
There is much I dislike about myself. I am pretty content. If there’s anything, it’s only small stuff.
12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I can’t think of anything special at the moment. Maybe that I am usually pretty content.
13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
I am not sure about this one. I like to be independent. I don’t want to rely on other people.
14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes. Sometimes my head is just completely blank. I have no ideas and no creativity. I don’t really know how to fix it, and it can be quite frustrating not having any ideas or anything.
People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I like nice people. People who can have fun and don’t take everything too seriously.
And then, I don’t like rude people. People that say mean things and create quarrels.
16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
Romance seems nice and cute. Being in love with each others seems like a wonderful thing.
Sex is embarrassing to talk about.
I would want a partner that is nice and warm, and loves me. Someone I can open up to.
17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
I would hope he/she could get good friends. And, of course a good upbringing with lots of love.
I would take any measure for my kid.
18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
I am not one to decide what beliefs another person should have. I would maybe try to explain why I think it’s how I think, but not much more. Maybe I would think I hope she/he could understand.
19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
I don’t really have a special relationship with society. I don’t really care that much.
I see people as humans just doing their own thing. Some people may fall on a “bad” path, some on a good one.
I would say a social problem is hate. People with too strong negative feelings. I am not sure how to prevent this. No clue.
20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I usually don’t choose friends. It’s more often the other way. I try to behave nice, maybe smile and adjust to their level. I am not all the good at opening up to people.
I think we both would’ve lost interest in each others quick if we weren’t for each others.
I do often feel a bit uncomfortable around people, so I usually enjoy my time alone.
21. How do you behave around strangers?
Polite. Act according to the situation. In one way I care less about how I act around strangers, but I don’t want to leave much of a impression at all, and definitely not a bad one.
Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is a perception. It’s something an individual find harmonious and generally pretty. Beauty can be used with almost anything. A beautiful house, a beautiful person (looks and personality), a poem, music, etc…
Love is a feeling. It’s often used with human relationships. Love can be towards family, a special partner, friends. It’s a higher level of “like”. You can also use it towards food, colors, music and much of the same things as “beautiful”.
We can see the difference in this sentence: “It’s beautiful, I love it.”. Beautiful is applied to a something. Love is the feeling you have towards it.
2. What are your most important values?
I value the beautiful. Music and art, warmness, softness, nice people and nature. I am sure I could’ve gone on. I think I could say harmony and peace above all.
3. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I do. It has come to me from my parents. It also has a lot of generally nice morals to follow. I just don’t see anything wrong with it.
4. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
Militaries protect us from war. I am not very knowledgeable on this topic, but I believe a lot of how we are handling this is not very good. War is always bad.
Power is quality and quantity.
Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
I usually don’t have long conversations about specific things. If I even have long conversations it would be on quite a variety of topics.
I don’t have that many interests, but I really enjoy “small arts”. By that I mean music and art, playing instruments, digital music and drawing. Not art that you need a lot of resources for.
6. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
I am not focused on health and medicine. I do find this to be boring. It’s good to be healthy, but it’s not interesting at all. I never work out or do anything in this area.
7. What do you think of daily chores?
I think I have a pretty common view on daily chores. They are boring, but sometimes they need to be done. Sometimes I try to make them a bit more fun by, as an example, putting on some music in the background.
8. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
I do love animated films. The visuals and possibilities stimulates me. I find other “non-animated” movies not that enjoyable, so I usually don’t watch them.
For books, I never read. It’s just too plain and boring for me. As I said, I love visuals.
9. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
I don’t cry much. It usually never reaches the point where I cry.
I usually smile at cute moments in both reality and in movies. Like clumsy people, or maybe spotting animals. And of course, if there is anything i find funny, I would naturally smile. I can smile at a lot of different things, and often small things.
10. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
Somewhere harmonious. Somewhere relaxing. This can be achieved with music, or maybe just quiet environments. Out in nature is a good place, as it’s quiet and beautiful scenery. I know sleeping animals often creates a type of comfort in me. Soft talking is also good.
Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
I would say people would say my weakness could be that I am too shy. Sometimes it can be hard to say anything at all.
There is much I dislike about myself. I am pretty content. If there’s anything, it’s only small stuff.
12. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
I can’t think of anything special at the moment. Maybe that I am usually pretty content.
13. In what areas of your life would you like help?
I am not sure about this one. I like to be independent. I don’t want to rely on other people.
14. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
Yes. Sometimes my head is just completely blank. I have no ideas and no creativity. I don’t really know how to fix it, and it can be quite frustrating not having any ideas or anything.
People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I like nice people. People who can have fun and don’t take everything too seriously.
And then, I don’t like rude people. People that say mean things and create quarrels.
16. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
Romance seems nice and cute. Being in love with each others seems like a wonderful thing.
Sex is embarrassing to talk about.
I would want a partner that is nice and warm, and loves me. Someone I can open up to.
17. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
I would hope he/she could get good friends. And, of course a good upbringing with lots of love.
I would take any measure for my kid.
18. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
I am not one to decide what beliefs another person should have. I would maybe try to explain why I think it’s how I think, but not much more. Maybe I would think I hope she/he could understand.
19. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
I don’t really have a special relationship with society. I don’t really care that much.
I see people as humans just doing their own thing. Some people may fall on a “bad” path, some on a good one.
I would say a social problem is hate. People with too strong negative feelings. I am not sure how to prevent this. No clue.
20. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
I usually don’t choose friends. It’s more often the other way. I try to behave nice, maybe smile and adjust to their level. I am not all the good at opening up to people.
I think we both would’ve lost interest in each others quick if we weren’t for each others.
I do often feel a bit uncomfortable around people, so I usually enjoy my time alone.
21. How do you behave around strangers?
Polite. Act according to the situation. In one way I care less about how I act around strangers, but I don’t want to leave much of a impression at all, and definitely not a bad one.