I know 3 ESEs and all of them seem to get anxious and mad very quickly. Like going from 0 to 100 in about 2 minutes, and they raise their voice pretty easily also. When they talk about the problem they have on their mind, they use so many expressions and change their voice tone so much, they speak around the issue over and over again, never suggesting a solution to the problem. And when I try to cut their talk and give them a solution, or tell them why they are wrong, they try to emotionally manipulate me, so that I continue listening to them talking about their anxieties, and a lot of times they play the role of victim, while the problem lies somewhere else.
It is very difficult to calm them when they raise their voice and start talking things they later regret.
Maybe the ESEs I know are not very healthy, do the other ESEs have more control over their emotions or is it just their functional stacking being incompatible with me?
It is very difficult to calm them when they raise their voice and start talking things they later regret.
Maybe the ESEs I know are not very healthy, do the other ESEs have more control over their emotions or is it just their functional stacking being incompatible with me?