The Extended Questionnaire v0.2
Tell me about yourself.I'm a poet
What do you study or do for a living? How did you come to do that? What do you like or dislike about it?
I have no plans on ever going to college as I don't need it to support any of my ambitions in life. I write a lot. Poetry, stories, to-do-lists, and ideas that I will develop in the future. For money, I've been bouncing from job to job in order to get money to pursue my real dreams.
What are your values, and why?
Perspective: I really dislike when people don't look at things through a different lens since I tend to do this automatically. When I meet someone else who does the same thing, I feel so relieved.
Love: I believe that everyone has a "true love" in life that'll make them complete. Whether that be art, science, or another person, you must find it. Other people call it passion I call it love. You give yourself to your passions, your "love" gives back as well.
What else do you do on a daily basis? What are your interests and hobbies? Why do you
do them?
I read up on a lot of historical figures and random facts. If I'm not doing one of those things, I'm listening to music. I am very interested in writing and figures who altered the course of history either positively or negatively.
Describe your relations with family and friends. What do you like and dislike about them?
They see me as extremely intelligent and kind, but distant. I have been called an elitist and narcissistic on occasions because I don't like doing "small" work. They often tell me that they know nothing about my motives or if my loyalties lie with them. I dislike that they question me on those things.
What do you look for in friends? In romantic relationships?
I don't really know that answer to be honest. I kind of become friends with people without realizing it. I don't really have a group, I just bounce to different people depending on how I'm feeling. They could be nerds, jocks, cheerleaders, class clowns, or rebels. For some reason, I have a calming effect on others and they open up to me. I look for a girl who has a fire for life burning within her and a giant heart. That's about it.
What conflicts have you encountered recently with other people? Why did they happen? Which kinds seem to happen on a regular basis?
People see me as a cold wannabe aristocrat one second and a loving, inspiring individual the next. It happens because I do like making things fun for everyone, but when I'm around too many people with different views, I don't know how to make it fun for everyone without stepping on toes so I take a neutral stance.
How would your friends describe you?
Funny, moody, intelligent, weird, and anxious
What do people generally see as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
My intelligence and ability to get people to trust me is often brought up. I like that I'm a creative and kind person.
What are your weaknesses? What criticism do you often face from others? What do you dislike about yourself?
I am very unsure of my abilities to actually execute my goals in the way that I envision them. I simultaneously have the most outward confidence a person could have while I'm internally stressed. People hate when I correct their flawed logic or bring up what could go wrong in a situation.
In what areas of life can you manage well on your own? In what areas of your life would you like help?
I can manage myself and others pretty well. I tend to have problems with keeping my environments taken care of.
What things do you find to be a chore? What things do you enjoy more than others?
Cleaning is my enemy. I enjoy talking with people about their dreams and aspirations or exchanging ideas on how to change the world.
What goals, aspirations, or plans do you have for the future? How did you come to have them?
I want to become a writer of great fame like how Truman Capote was for his time. I've always read and something about an author seems so much more authentic to me than any other creative career. I would also like to adopt kids because I was in the foster care system and know how that treats young people, so I would like to help some kids get their head up.
If you had enough money to live comfortably for the rest of your life without working, what would you do with your time?
I would become a politician for the people.
What traits do you find endearing that others might dislike? What traits are considered positive/neutral by others but tend to annoy you?
I like people who are a bit abrasive for some reason, even though I hate when they use it against me. I hate when people advocate doing something because "that's the way it's supposed to be done." If I see a way to cut corners and retain the good parts, I'll do it that way.
What kinds of things do you do to manage and/or beautify your environment (your room, your house, etc.)? What do you think of daily chores?
I hang up posters of my role models and have my "nice" things sitting out for everyone to see.
How do you behave around strangers?
I'm either a quiet observer or the guy trying to bring them into my circle. I always show respect like smiling or saying hi.
How do you react to conflict? What do you do if somebody insults or attacks you?
If their my friend, I may confront them head on, but most of the times I respond with biting sarcasm and piercing humor. If I don't know them, I'll likely ignore it or play it cool.
What is one common misconception that people have? Explain why it is wrong.
A lot of people seem to believe that the world is black or white when it's really always been a grayish color. While some things can be seen as bad or good like rape for instance, most things fall in an area of ambiguity that can't be logically explained as bad or good.
What did you do last Friday?
Had a barbecue with some friends
What is your biggest accomplishment?
I personally helped about 14 people graduate High School which was no easy task since I was also a senior at that time.
What is something you regret?
There was this girl who I fell in love with but never pursued because I was afraid that she didn't like me. Even though she gave me lots of signals. I also knew her ex from mutual friends which made me scared to ask her out because I wasn't sure what others would think of the relationship.
Who do you admire, and why?
I adore John Lennon because he stood up for what he believed in and was at the head of an entire generation. His music never fails to inspire me and is what made me want to change the world in my own way. I want to become his spiritual successor. (Yes, I know about the whole Cynthia Lennon and the beatings, but it's more about the idea of him as a person than the reality.)
What's been on your mind? Has anything been worrying or concerning you? What problems have you encountered lately?
If my absolute faith in my destiny is justified or if I'm delusional and will just end up dying alone and a nobody. That's what always comes into my head when I'm working at my craft.
What are your religious or spiritual beliefs and why do you hold them?
I believe in a higher power, but not as the three great religions pose it as. I see God as a sort of energy that just permeates throughout everything and everyone.
What are your political beliefs, and why? To what extent do you care about politics?
I would say I'm a Libertarian because I see that as the only logically and socially choice. I see the major parties as leaning too far to one side when what we really need is moderation. I care deeply about politics and know a lot about historical and modern politics.
Would you ever be interested in starting a business? Why or why not? What role would you play in it? What kind of business would it be?
I've always been very interested in starting a business because I don't like working for other people. I would like to be the visionary leader who maps out the journey and motivates the people while letting someone else steer the ship.
What kind of work environment do you prefer? What do you look for in a job?
I prefer something where theirs new information coming in constantly so it doesn't grow stagnant. I look for a job that allows me to help people and be creative.
What is or was your favorite school subject and why?
English because I've always had an affinity for writing and manipulating words to my advantage. The writing assignments were always pretty vague and allowed ample space to flex my creative muscles.
How do you approach responsibility? What do you tend to expect of others?
I am responsible when it's for their people's well-being, but pretty relaxed when it comes to my own. I expect people to listen to my insights and constantly strive to improve themselves. They need to also help me when I need them since I always help them or at least listen to me rant without telling me it doesn't make sense.
Where did you go on your most recent vacation? What did you do there? How did you like it and why?
I have never been on vacation unfortunately.
What were you like as a kid? How have you changed since you were a child?
I was a quiet kid who was easy to talk to and often surrounded by friends who would shield me from others. Now, I'm a person who turns people who hate me into friends after sitting with them for 10 minutes. I adapt to whatever environment I am in and am pretty sure that many people have alternate views on me.
What was your high school experience like?
Got along with pretty much everyone, but often ditched classes so I could hang out with friends. Pretty well-known around school for my fashion sense and intelligence.
Talk about a significant event from your life.
Can't think of one
Do you like kids? Why or why not?
I love kids. Just not for longer than 5 hours or so. It's nice to talk with them about their thoughts and perspectives on the world, but soon their irrational logic and emotions kick in and start to ruin things. I also don't like the impulsiveness that some children show.
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
That the learn to accept themselves and are shown all sides of a subject. I would like to home school them so they can learn more easily pursue their passions without being swallowed by a inefficient system.
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
I over analyze where I went wrong and that often leads to me being down. Never sticks around for longer than a day though. If people express disappointment in me, that also makes me feel horrible.
What do you do if you're not getting what you want? What approach do you use?
A few times when I was younger, I would manipulate their feelings to get what I wanted.
What is the purpose of life? What do you find personally meaningful in life?
The purpose of life is whatever you make it. My purpose is to be a lighthouse that guides other people who are lost at sea.
How do you dress or manage your appearance?
I 'm really into the grunge/punk look. I rotate between that and dressing up in high-class suits and fashion.
Well, that was much longer than I thought it would be. Hope someone reads it.