This really could be in the main ITR part but I'm just so cozy in the Delta section
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Okay so wondering if you ever TRULY understand your dual? I am confident that I've spent time w a dual. I feel warm and fuzzy with them and I am never bored by them bc SLIs are so mysterious mmmm.
I actually have a few questions:
-What are the differences between SLI females and males (might as well take advantage of posting in the delta group hehe)? Real examples preferably not from online sources
-Do you ever get passed the mysterious haze that blocks you from FULLY knowing your dual? It always feels like we are so intertwined yet they are still a mystery??? Perhaps SLIs are just mysterious to everyone??
-When you "dualize," if there is a such thing, is there a long period where you mesh together and use your suggestive A LOT? Like I feel like I'm living in Si-land. I loooooove it, but I can feel myself going back to my Ne ways. Just to give a quick example (bc it's easier to talk about clothes), I want so badly to be a minimalist with only quality things but then sooner or later I go back to buying cheap but large quantities of clothing (thrift store clothing bc #fightfastfashion). This happens regularly. I am so inconsistent it hurts. I want to be this natural earthy person but then I go and switch it off by wanting all of these crazy patterns and to experiment with how I look/do things. I've been living in this peaceful Si land with a beloved SLI but then I'm like ~~but what about who I am~~ and then skip off to explore and do things. I love being in both mindsets, but there is a stark difference. Obviously maintenance and caring of details is not natural, but when I do get into it I REALLY obsess over it. Anyone else experience this or is this not duality?
-Do both partners experience a feeling of past-lives? And what I mean specifically is that do you ever feel like you have already lived like your partner and how they are attempting to live now? We both experience a "been there, done that" sensation when one of us is working toward a project or have an idea. He is actively telling others to "think big" and create new ideas and I'm trying to live in an isolated peace bubble and am focusing all of a sudden on housekeeping... which I would NEVER have done before I met him.
Curious to hear from you guys
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*Art by http://blairset.tumblr.com/
Okay so wondering if you ever TRULY understand your dual? I am confident that I've spent time w a dual. I feel warm and fuzzy with them and I am never bored by them bc SLIs are so mysterious mmmm.
I actually have a few questions:
-What are the differences between SLI females and males (might as well take advantage of posting in the delta group hehe)? Real examples preferably not from online sources
-Do you ever get passed the mysterious haze that blocks you from FULLY knowing your dual? It always feels like we are so intertwined yet they are still a mystery??? Perhaps SLIs are just mysterious to everyone??
-When you "dualize," if there is a such thing, is there a long period where you mesh together and use your suggestive A LOT? Like I feel like I'm living in Si-land. I loooooove it, but I can feel myself going back to my Ne ways. Just to give a quick example (bc it's easier to talk about clothes), I want so badly to be a minimalist with only quality things but then sooner or later I go back to buying cheap but large quantities of clothing (thrift store clothing bc #fightfastfashion). This happens regularly. I am so inconsistent it hurts. I want to be this natural earthy person but then I go and switch it off by wanting all of these crazy patterns and to experiment with how I look/do things. I've been living in this peaceful Si land with a beloved SLI but then I'm like ~~but what about who I am~~ and then skip off to explore and do things. I love being in both mindsets, but there is a stark difference. Obviously maintenance and caring of details is not natural, but when I do get into it I REALLY obsess over it. Anyone else experience this or is this not duality?
-Do both partners experience a feeling of past-lives? And what I mean specifically is that do you ever feel like you have already lived like your partner and how they are attempting to live now? We both experience a "been there, done that" sensation when one of us is working toward a project or have an idea. He is actively telling others to "think big" and create new ideas and I'm trying to live in an isolated peace bubble and am focusing all of a sudden on housekeeping... which I would NEVER have done before I met him.
Curious to hear from you guys