I have a skewed version of how I related to this person. That is, i don't know how they view me and can only relate information on how i view them.
They seem to me too laid back, like they could do imo with getting a move on. I also see them as changing their interests/hobbies/professions too often - like more often than what i consider 'stable'.
I prefer to make plans in advance: so like meet with them 3 days from now, let's say. They always get in touch the last minute to check that we're still doing X together. It seems that is their way of confirming a plan, so they leave it for the last minute. To me this seems unreliable since in my head i've already finalized my plans several days ago.
To me they seem directionless, like in a way i could help them in this area. Yet, they are very resistant to feedback in this area.
I also get this impression like i'm babying them when we hang out. It is tiresome.
Any comments?
They seem to me too laid back, like they could do imo with getting a move on. I also see them as changing their interests/hobbies/professions too often - like more often than what i consider 'stable'.
I prefer to make plans in advance: so like meet with them 3 days from now, let's say. They always get in touch the last minute to check that we're still doing X together. It seems that is their way of confirming a plan, so they leave it for the last minute. To me this seems unreliable since in my head i've already finalized my plans several days ago.
To me they seem directionless, like in a way i could help them in this area. Yet, they are very resistant to feedback in this area.
I also get this impression like i'm babying them when we hang out. It is tiresome.
Any comments?